{"id":1645,"date":"2013-11-15T17:50:00","date_gmt":"2013-11-15T16:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/2013\/11\/15\/dont-feel-resentful-make-it-your-job\/"},"modified":"2013-11-15T17:50:00","modified_gmt":"2013-11-15T16:50:00","slug":"dont-feel-resentful-make-it-your-job","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/dont-feel-resentful-make-it-your-job\/","title":{"rendered":"Dont feel resentful, Make It Your Job"},"content":{"rendered":"

Make It Your Job : zenhabits<\/a><\/p>\n

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And I found myself feeling resentful. \u2026<\/div>\n
And I watched my resentment.<\/div>\n
And I saw at its root a feeling of entitlement, that everyone should do things the way I want them to do it. A feeling of wanting to control others. A feeling that others should be what I want them to be. I\u2019m at the center of the universe, and everyone else is a supporting character in my story.<\/div>\n
Of course, that\u2019s not true. They are their own people, and don\u2019t want to be controlled, and want to live how they want to live. I\u2019m only a supporting character in their lives.<\/div>\n
\u2026<\/span><\/div>\n
The effect is that I released the idea that they should serve me, that they should do things my way. And instead I did the work without complaint, lovingly in the service of my loved ones.<\/span><\/div>\n
I\u2019ll still teach them, because that\u2019s my job too, to serve them by showing them the best ways to live life. But I won\u2019t do it with the resentment, only with the love.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Make It Your Job : zenhabits And I found myself feeling resentful. \u2026 And I watched my resentment. And I saw at its root a feeling of entitlement, that everyone should do things the way I want them to do it. A feeling of wanting to control others. A feeling that others should be what […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[48,40,42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1645","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-filosofia","category-ideas","category-psicologia"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1645","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1645"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1645\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1645"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1645"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1645"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}