{"id":1574,"date":"2014-03-28T17:03:00","date_gmt":"2014-03-28T16:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/2014\/03\/28\/8-ways-to-say-no-without-hurting-your-image\/"},"modified":"2014-03-28T17:03:00","modified_gmt":"2014-03-28T16:03:00","slug":"8-ways-to-say-no-without-hurting-your-image","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/8-ways-to-say-no-without-hurting-your-image\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Ways to Say No Without Hurting Your Image"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>V\u00eda @ElenaBRZ&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/today\/post\/article\/20140311110227-69244073-8-ways-to-say-no-without-hurting-your-image?utm_content=bufferee51c&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=twitter.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer\">8 Ways to Say No Without Hurting Your Image | LinkedIn<\/a><\/div>\n<blockquote><p><i>I learned that there\u2019s a big difference between pleasing people and helping them. Being a giver is not about saying yes to all of the people all of the time to all of the requests. It\u2019s about saying yes to some of the people (generous givers and \u201cmatchers\u201d who aim for quid pro quo, but not necessarily the selfish takers) some of the time (when it won\u2019t compromise your own goals and ambitions) to some of the requests (when you have resources or skills that are uniquely relevant). Outside those specific conditions, successful givers follow Buffett\u2019s edict and decline for one fundamental reason:<br \/>Saying no frees you up to say yes when it matters most.<\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p><i>1. The Deferral: \u201cI\u2019m swamped right now, but feel free to follow up\u201d<br \/>2. The Referral: \u201cI\u2019m not qualified to do what you\u2019re asking, but here\u2019s something else\u201d<br \/>3. The Introduction: \u201cThis isn\u2019t in my wheelhouse, but I know someone who might be helpful\u201d<br \/>4. The Bridge: \u201cYou two are working toward common goals\u201d<br \/>5. The Triage: \u201cMeet my colleague, who will set up a time to chat\u201d<br \/>6. The Batch: \u201cOthers have posed the same question, so let\u2019s chat together\u201d<br \/>7. The Relational Account: \u201cIf I helped you, I&#8217;d be letting others down\u201d<br \/>8. The Learning Opportunity<\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div><strong style=\"border: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;\"><br \/><\/strong><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>V\u00eda @ElenaBRZ&nbsp;8 Ways to Say No Without Hurting Your Image | LinkedIn I learned that there\u2019s a big difference between pleasing people and helping them. Being a giver is not about saying yes to all of the people all of the time to all of the requests. It\u2019s about saying yes to some of the  [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[43,28,53,26,42,30],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1574","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-coaching","category-cosillas-empresariales","category-eficiencia","category-el-critico-como-artista","category-psicologia","category-sociologia"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1574","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1574"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1574\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1574"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1574"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1574"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}