{"id":1407,"date":"2015-05-10T17:14:00","date_gmt":"2015-05-10T16:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/2015\/05\/10\/however-imperfect-you-still-are-happiness-is-about-knowing-youve-got-the-power-to-make-things-better\/"},"modified":"2015-05-10T17:14:00","modified_gmt":"2015-05-10T16:14:00","slug":"however-imperfect-you-still-are-happiness-is-about-knowing-youve-got-the-power-to-make-things-better","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/however-imperfect-you-still-are-happiness-is-about-knowing-youve-got-the-power-to-make-things-better\/","title":{"rendered":"However imperfect you still are, happiness is about knowing you\u2019ve got the power to make things better"},"content":{"rendered":"
 via @bigthink How Do You Pursue Happiness? | Big Think<\/a><\/div>\n

This \u00abfriendly interest\u00bb is deceptively simple. Russell means a kind of warm, scientific curiosity, not raw vulnerability. He doesn’t advocate letting other people emotionally destroy you. This is the curiosity of a person comfortable in her own skin and prepared, therefore, to meet weirdness with interest and compassion up to the point where polite retreat is necessary, which it almost never really is.<\/span> <\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u2026this position of \u00abfriendly interest \u00bb is only possible for someone who is free of the demons of anxiety and envy, a freedom granted either by your constitution or earned through hard work.<\/span> <\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u2026If you\u2019re not blessed with ease, joy, and natural warmth, or if early life deprives you of them, the only thing you know how to do is to keep moving. Keep pushing. Keep trying within and at the fringes of what your limitations will allow until something gives and a little light breaks through. And whenever it does, to the best of your abilities, you seize upon that thing and run with it.<\/span> <\/p><\/blockquote>\n

<\/span>But the pursuit of happiness is mostly an uphill battle until you\u2019re able to appreciate and find some measure of happiness in the things you already have. Your own positive qualities. The people who love you in spite of everything that\u2019s wrong with you. The people you love, once you\u2019re brave enough to stick your head far enough above ground to see beyond yourself. For me, only time has made that even remotely possible. And once you\u2019re there, even a little bit, the pursuit of happiness becomes something less a pursuit in the sense of chasing something unattainable, and more a pursuit like gardening. You shuffle out, bleary-eyed, into the sunshine and look around, blinking. You notice something that needs watering. Something else that needs trimming. You take pleasure in the things that are flourishing. It\u2019s a feedback loop\u2026<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Happiness, then, isn\u2019t about feeling ecstatic all the time or floating, untroubled, on a calm, open sea. It\u2019s not about finally reaching some point beyond disappointment and pain. However imperfect you still are, it\u2019s about knowing you\u2019ve got the power to make things better, putting that power to use, and being able to enjoy the results.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

 via @bigthink How Do You Pursue Happiness? | Big Think This \u00abfriendly interest\u00bb is deceptively simple. Russell means a kind of warm, scientific curiosity, not raw vulnerability. He doesn’t advocate letting other people emotionally destroy you. This is the curiosity of a person comfortable in her own skin and prepared, therefore, to meet weirdness with […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[26,48,40],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1407","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-el-critico-como-artista","category-filosofia","category-ideas"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1407","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1407"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1407\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1407"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1407"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1407"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}