{"id":1317,"date":"2016-03-05T23:54:00","date_gmt":"2016-03-05T22:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/2016\/03\/05\/como-estar-en-desacuerdo\/"},"modified":"2016-03-05T23:54:00","modified_gmt":"2016-03-05T22:54:00","slug":"como-estar-en-desacuerdo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/como-estar-en-desacuerdo\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo estar en desacuerdo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thebookoflife.org\/how-to-disagree\/\">On How to Disagree | The Book of Life<\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>Disagreement is especially pressing now, because of certain large societal forces<\/b> that have been building for the last couple of centuries.<br \/><b>1. Politics<\/b><br \/>The developed world is now democratic. We\u2019ve long been moving away from habits of deference and from hierarchies in which most people don\u2019t feel it\u2019s their role to have much of a view about a lot of things.<br \/><b>2. Relationships of Equality<\/b><br \/>To ask any couple what they disagree about is one of the more fascinating and consoling exercises: we realise we\u2019re not alone.<br \/><b>3. Technology<\/b><br \/>Technology has made disagreement more vivid. We are very readily brought into contact with other people\u2019s abrasive attitudes \u2013 which, until recently \u2013 we could never have encountered.<\/p>\n<p>HELPFUL MOVES<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>DON\u2019T RUSH OVER DISAGREEMENTS<\/li>\n<li>DISAGREEMENT IS NORMAL<\/li>\n<li>DON\u2019T IMPORT ENERGY FROM ELSEWHERE INTO YOUR DISAGREEMENT \u2013 Energy gets imported in at least five distinctive ways:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li>Anger is redirected and concentrated<\/li>\n<li>We are arguing with the past<\/li>\n<li>Frustrated sexual desire gets channelled into disagreement<\/li>\n<li>We are trying to compensate for a feeling of humiliation<\/li>\n<li>We long for clarity in an ambiguous world<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<div><\/div>\n<ul>\n<li>TRAUMA: AUDIT OF THE BIOGRAPHY OF IDEAS<\/li>\n<li>UNFORTUNATE INTRODUCTIONS TO IDEAS<\/li>\n<li>SURRENDER THE PLEASURES OF SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESS<\/li>\n<li>THE USES OF ART IN SOLVING DISAGREEMENT<\/li>\n<li>UNDERSTAND THE ROLE OF TECHNOLOGY IN CREATING ENEMIES<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"white-space: pre;\"> <\/span>The fear of not being heard at all<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"white-space: pre;\"> <\/span>The sense of being anonymous<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"white-space: pre;\"> <\/span>It\u2019s not a person on the other end<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<div><\/div>\n<ul>\n<li>SNOBBERY<\/li>\n<li>HUMOUR<\/li>\n<li>THE ROLE OF SEDUCTION AND REASSURANCE<\/li>\n<li>STRATEGIC PESSIMISM &#8211; The pessimist therefore shifts the focus away from an attempt to convert to an attempt to endure and manage disagreement. This involves two responses:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div>\n<ol>\n<li>Human Rigths<\/li>\n<li>Manners<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On How to Disagree | The Book of Life Disagreement is especially pressing now, because of certain large societal forces that have been building for the last couple of centuries.1. PoliticsThe developed world is now democratic. We\u2019ve long been moving away from habits of deference and from hierarchies in which most people don\u2019t feel it\u2019s  [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1317","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sin-categoria"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1317","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1317"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1317\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1317"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1317"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silta.es\/juantatay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1317"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}